Happiness - Work Now or Later?
Long-term success and happiness follows hand-in-hand with
strength of character. As I mention in my book, Fast Track Your Success and Happiness, If we want to achieve a certain goal, we simply must do things that are less pleasant now than other alternatives have the potential to be. For example, if John wants to get a degree, he has to study for his exams, and not bliss out at the beach. In order to become a person who manifests health, wealth,
success, education etc in our lives, we have to want and be
motivated to do those things that we don't always like to do.
Once we become motivated because we have a specific purpose for
doing those things, they become satisfying because we can see
our lives moving in the right direction. Life is certainly a journey. And it is not a journey where we
board a train and know our destination in advance. We actually
create our own destination by the steps we take today. So for
me, becoming the kind of person who can amass wealth and then
give it to charity, the kind of person who can love without
expecting back, and the kind of person who can achieve the
wildest goals, is well worth any unpleasantness I might have to
experience now. In having that mind set, the hard work it takes to achieve our
goals doesn't seem unpleasant. Even if we never achieve the
goals we set, we will be well on our way to developing an
amazing strength of character. (C) Copyright Petra Rankin 2005 Petra Rankin used powerful techniques to beat her own long-term
depression. She is now dedicated to teaching others how to be
happier and lead more successful lives. Her first book Fast Track
Your Success and Happiness is due to be launched in
September 2005 and is currently available for download as a free
e-book instead of paying $19.95. Limited time only!
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